HEAVEN is right in front of YOU

Hi everyone,

How are you all today..? If you live in Adelaide, you would probably agree with me how beautiful our weather is today. It felt so… heavenly, especially when I walked along the river and beach of Port Noarlunga today.

Do you notice or know a lot of people who keep searching for heavenly life style but forgetting the simple things right in front of them?

I often realise how beautiful life is. My gratitude for simple things in life keep increasing as I get older. I love my home, my family, my friends and the fact that I have a secure job producing secure income to help me enjoy the finer things in life too.

As I become more aware of what’s more important in life, I am gradually developing a system to enable me buy my time back. Being able to gradually replace my employment income (active income) with passive income from investments and home business ideas. It is so…sweet and make me feel so… fortunate.

I read a book called “Rich Dad Poor Dad” by Robert Kiyosaki a few years ago and learned since then how important it is to be able to build a pipeline to create an ongoing passive income, so you can use your time to enjoy quality time in your life more instead of trading your time for money all the time.

It didn’t make sense as much to me then, as I was so.. comfortable earning money from employment through trading my time, as it was the only way I knew how. However, once I started experiencing how nice it is to be able to earn some extra money from doing what you love doing pasively, it’s like a dream came true.

The thing is that, you can keep going to work if you enjoy what you do at work and enjoy the ability to network with many skilled and knowledgeable people through your workplace. You can then earn 2 or 3 lots of income from different sources. As soon as the extra income which is your passive income replaces or overtakes your active income, you can retire earlier from your employment if you choose to do so. If you want to keep working because you enjoy it, that’s even better, as you can keep earning more income that you can invest in producing even more passive income. I hope I am making sense here.

Anyway, in the mean time, just relax, enjoy the sun shine, the fresh air, the clean water, the smiles from friends and family and the fresh food you can cook at home using local fresh produce.

Life is too short, stop searching for the unknown. Enjoy what’s right in front of you within your reach first. Never complain for what you do not or cannot have.

Show appreciation to your partner, children and friends for what they are able to give you. Never demand for what they cannot give you or what they do not have.

Be thankful for who they are. Never expect them to be what they are not.

I am sure you know the rules of peace. This is just a gentle reminder as we all need one from time to time.

Take care,

Love, Tenny




I know… that you should not wait for spring to smile but let’s face it, most people do love the sun shine and it tends to make people smile more. I personally love the sun shine, it gives me more energy to get going faster with what I need to do.

Even though some people prefer cooler climate, somehow the sun shine makes most people smile. Most people love flowers, colours and brightness. So, let’s embrace the brightness of spring and take the opportunity to brighten our mind with lots of positive thinking too.

Leave behind any negative and gloomy thoughts, environment or ideas you may come across. Move forward toward the better and brighter life style and opportunities. Explore and find ways to a better life. There are so much more to life than just being the same and doing the same thing over and over.

Remember, if you want your situation to change, you must be willing to change something. Change what you do to get different results. Learn from experts that have succeeded in what they do, learn from them and follow their path.

Please be mindful too that you need to move forward, go with what’s working right now and in the future in this information age. Internet and network marketing is still on top of the list and it is still the fastest growing industry. So find ways to be part of it. There are lots of opportunities out there with very low risk but high income potential.

Find a good business and career coaches that can help you find the right path for you.

Everything happens in spring, new growth and new ideas. So, don’t get left behind.

Good Luck and let me know if you need help to connect to people who can help you.

Enjoy life..!


If You Want Something to Change, Change Something.

I hope I am making myself clear with this message.

What I mean with this is that we all have some thoughts about wanting things to be a little bit or a lot different to what they are now particularly when it comes to our own situation, whether it is our health, our financial position, our relationship, our job situation or our social make up.

Well, unfortunately we are all the same, we tend to think and wish too much but are not motivated enough or willing to take action on our thoughts and taking control to change ourselves or things within our control.

Based on my own experience, unless I get out there and have enough courage to change things for me, no one is going to do it for me. Therefore, I have no choice but to make changes to my situation myself gracefully and with confidence.

I understand that it is not that simple or easy to make changes. We are all creatures of habits but we can do it gradually. Make conscious willingness to do something that is normally inconvenient. That’s just the way it is, success is an inconvenience, so making changes is not always easy. We have to get out of the little box and get out of our comfort zone.

Before we can change things around us, we have to have clear awareness about ourselves and our own behaviour. Make realisation of things that need changing and take courage to change one thing at a time gradually starting from the easiest thing.

To help make the process easier, read, research and search for appropriate and quality guidance even if you have to pay for it. It’s all worth it.

Why don’t you try, make a plan now and start taking action. You can do it…!


Coach Tenny

Building Relationship

Wow…! I found an incredible relationship doctor.

I personally haven’t needed help in this area these days but when I tried to help my best friend, I did some research and came across this Professional Counselor by the name of Bob Grant.

He wrote this book called “The Women Men Adore… and Never Want to Leave”

I bought his book to give to my friend as a gift but I was naughty. I had a sneak and read through quickly before I gave it to her. I hope she is not reading this article. Never mind as I have given this book to a few people by now.
This is what Bob said:

I am so confident that you’ll be absolutely thrilled with “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” that I couldn’t pry it out of your hands if I tried.  But don’t take my word for it. Get your hands on my e-book today and put it to the test for 8 weeks. Read every page and try out the tips, tactics and strategies on for size and if it’s not worth at least 10 times more than you what you paid for  — or if it hasn’t revolutionized your love life — or if you’re not 100% satisfied within 8 weeks, I’ll refund your entire purchase price. NO QUESTIONS ASKED!

the "first and last of its kind” relationship book that will show you how to completely understand men once and for all – and use that understanding to create the relationship of your dreams -- not in months or years, but immediately.  That is why this is the last book on man-woman relationships that you’ll ever need to read. You’ll get everything you need right in this book to accomplish your relationship goals and completely change your life.

You’ve probably heard of bestselling books like “Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus” and “He’s Just Not That Into You.”  Unlike those books and other relationship books on the market that point to the glaring differences between men and women (“Tell me something I didn’t know!”) The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave goes a step further and teaches you how to use those differences to your utmost advantage.

When you master the principles I teach in The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave, men won’t be able to resist you, they’ll do your bidding, and will feel powerless around you.  Best of all, they’re going to love every minute of it.  Everybody wins!

Whether you want to “get out of a relationship rut,” attract the relationship you want into your life, or find fulfillment in your current relationship, I hope that for your sake, you’ll take the path to relationship success that hundreds of my clients have taken.


Wishing you the relationship of your dreams,


Bob Grant, L.P.C.

I hope you enjoy the preview and why don’t try to read the whole book.

A healthy relationship is worth the world to me and I am sure you agree with me.


Coach Tenny

Click below to read more about it. See for yourself and make the right decision.

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Week 1 of 2011

Hi My Favourite Readers,

Happy New Year…! May 2011 is the best year yet for you all.

How are you doing with your New Year’s Resolution so far? Did you even have one?

What did you plan to improve this year?

  • Bigger goals?
  • Better financial management?
  • Better eating habits?
  • More exercise?
  • Higher motivation?
  • More generousity?
  • More organised?
  • More confidence and self esteem?
  • More tolerance?

Whatever it is you plan to improve, other than making your plan, ensure that that you have a well structured processes and most of all you must take action on your plan.

Once you commence taking action, if it does not work successfully the first time, never ever give up, you must be persistence and repeatedly refocus or recompose yourself to do it again and again until you achieve your goals.

Make sure that you set smaller goals and achieve one small goals at a time. How do you eat an elephant? “One bite at a time”. That right, one step at a time and enjoy your journey to get to your destiny. Be patient and be persistent. There is no other way.

If you already set you goals and prepared your plans for this year, you may want to review it now and check if you have started with your action plans. If you haven’t and you are in a position to take your first step right this minute, do it now.

Proscrastination is the worst blocker of any success, so don’t allow your mind to play with this dangerour word of proscrastination. Encourage and force yourself to do what you need to do. Swith that “YES” button on your right side of your brain.

If you haven’t already prepared your plans or set your goals, why don’t you start doing that now. A plan is extremely important to start your journey to success. Without a clear plan, you don’t have a target and we may go all over the place without choosing the path to take you to where you want to go and where you want to end up being.

The first week of 2011 is not over yet and even if it was by the time you get to read this, you are never too late to start.

Enjoy the rest of this first week and all the best.

Catch you later,


Coach Tenny,



Freedom is such a profound word.  Everyone dreams of having freedom in life.  I’d say that freedom is worth more than anything to most people, yet most people may not have realised that missing the simple things we take for granted may be the reason why we lose a sense of freedom.

I have a little story to tell a long this line.  Recently, I went overseas to a developing country for a holiday for a few weeks.  It was a highly populated and poluted country that is rich in culture, natural resources, food and people’s friendliness.  Unfortunately, the tap water is not drinkable there.

What does that mean to me who was so used to having drinkable tap water that can be used for everything including drinking it of course?  It was extremely difficult.  I had to use bottled or boiled water to drink, brush my teeth, wash plates and cutleries, wash fruit and salad, which means that it was always risky for me to eat at restaurants and cafes, let alone local street side food stalls.  However, when you travel a lot, you tend to buy ready to eat food when you are hungry or when it’s meal time.  It’s even more important for me, as I love being adventurous with food.

I thought I was being careful making sure that I did not eat or drink anything that was likely to cause any health problem but guess what? I always have a stomach bug whenever I go to these beautiful places which is a little annoying.

When I returned to my home town in Australia where we have so much fresh air and tap water that is drinkable, I really could not believe the level of freedom I regained, simply for being able to brush my teeth and wash my mouth without thinking that I may catch some dangerous bacteria from having a drop of water landed on my lip by accident.  That feeling of freedom simply just because of water was a phenomenal feeling.  Unbelievable..!  That is something huge for me and I will never take Australian tap water for granted ever again.

I hope you enjoy this article and I hope you enjoy Adelaide’s tap water like I do.

Kind Regards,

Tenny Charlesworth CPC

Taking Action

  • Taking action on your plan is the most important part of any process of achieving goals. However, it is the most difficult part of the process.
  • Most of us have a lot of ideas and opinions about everything. We usually know what we want in life. However, we don’t always know how to start or to find the right path to get there.
  • Human beings have huge minds to gather and store ideas and opinions. However, unless you train your mind to put those ideas in order, to put a plan in place and to take action to go through the required journey joyfully and peacefully, you will not be able to achieve your goals successfully.
  • It is easy to want something and to come up with ideas but it is not always easy to achieve them.
  • There is a specific and structured process to put your ideas and thoughts in the right perspectives, to plan and to travel through your journey and to then turn your dreams into reality.
  • Your coach is here to work with you through that journey of yours to achieve your goals providing you are willing to travel through that journey to take you to your destination.
  • Without taking action on your ideas and plans, you will never achieve your goals.
  • The moment you decide to take action on one smallest goal, you will want to achieve more and your life will evolve to become the one you want.
  • For me, taking action to do various and related studies, jobs and life experiences to become an exceptional life coach has come to fruition.
  • Just remember though that everything requires a process. So, be patient, persistent and resilient.
  • Never give up and most of all, take action and keep moving forward.

Good Luck and Best Wishes.


Your Life Coach is here to partner and work with you on how you can go through this process successfully.

If you are not familiar with life coaching, here is the link to find out more about it. To experience it, here is your best opportunity to take my offer to 2 FREE Coaching Sessions for the first 3 clients registering in each month.

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Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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Setting Goals

  • Setting goal is one of the most important part of the process to reach your success, because, unless you have specific and clear goals, you will not be able to concentrate on the right path to reach your destination. Without specific goals, you will be lost.
  • Yes, I agree, it’s easy said than done. If you are not used to planning and setting goals, learn from your coach and practice to do this.
  • No matter what happens out there, focus on your own dreams and values while learning from what’s happening around you.
  • There is no coincidence why good things happen to you.
  • Most likely, you had a dream, kept developing it in your mind and attracting yourself towards various actions to get you to your destination and before you know it you are there.
  • Keep focusing. Focus… Focus… Focus…! and avoid being swayed by external influences and other people’s values that get in your way. Your coach can help you do this professionally and gracefully without hurting anyone’s feelings.
  • Dream…, stick to your own values and follow your heart.
  • You deserve to achieve your own dreams and values.
  • These processes are often not easy to do. Find a reliable professional coach who will help you with this.
  • If you are not familiar with life coaching, here is the link to find out more about it. To experience it, here is your best opportunity to take my offer to 2 FREE Coaching Sessions for the first 3 clients registering in each month.

Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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Do you know yourself well?

  • First of all, let’s ask ourselves how much awareness we have about our own actions and behavior?
  • Most of us naturally enjoy looking out toward others. We unconsciously judge other people’s behaviors and actions without realizing what we are doing ourselves.
  • The more mature we become as common human beings, the deeper realization we have about ourselves. We become more aware of what we want and how we prefer to feel.
  • There are more and more people making new and different decisions about their relationships, their professions and their life styles later in life.
  • As we get older, I think we gradually get to know more about ourselves and our potential through life experiences, mistakes that we make along the way and other aspects influencing our decisions. Most importantly though, we need to learn from our mistakes and experiences.
  • The difference between those who succeed and those who fail is not a lot. Successful people make conscious awareness of every step and every stage of their lives and they keep making improvement towards better and bigger things.
  • They do self talk and continue making conscious modifications to their own behavior and actions.
  • These people become extremely confident about what they are capable of doing and what they want to achieve. They become unstoppable and successful.
  • When I said “mature”, I don’t mean that they are older in age. Some people become very mature and capable early in their lives knowing exactly which direction they are heading while others might just flounder treating life as a play ground without thinking of the consequences.
  • Of course it is important to enjoy life with harmonious balance, so you can be happy long term but not indulging on everything all the time or at the wrong time where you become stuck or out of control. Another word, do enjoy life with calculated actions.
  • So …, find and hang around with mature and optimistic people, their attitudes will rub on to you and you can grow as a person.

Enjoy life and stay positive.


Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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