Happy New Year 2012 – Goal Setting

Hi Everyone,

How are you all today? I hope you had a wonderful Christmas, spending quality time with family and friends.

Well the new year 2012 is just around the corner now, so let’s reflect on what we have done in 2011, whether we achieved the goals we set at the beginning of the year or not. Most people either don’t set goals or don’t achieve the goals that they set.

Did you even set any goal? If not, why not? If you did, did you achieve them? Are you happy with the outcome? Do you have new goals to achieve by mid and end of 2012? Are you prepared to do the work to achieve them? or you are just a dreamer.

Some people don’t like setting goals, they prefer to just float and enjoy each day without putting any kind of pressure on themselves, which is fine if that suits you best, as long as you are happy in the end. What I noticed though, those people who don’t set goals often say things like, o… what happened to the time? I have achieved nothing? I am feeling hopeless? I wished I could…., etc. Does that sound familiar to you? Have you heard people going on like that?

Well…, that’s common and openly acceptable in our society, which is ashamed the fact that people don’t actually consciously set goals or plan for their future, and then regret it later.

My advice is, if you don’t like planning or setting goals, by all mean, don’t do it, but please…don’t regret it after your time is gone with no result, that’s the worst thing you can do to yourself. Carrying regrets, resentment and frustration is one of the worst cause of any physical or mental illnesses in a long run. The worst thing is that it compounds as time goes and as we get older, and the bottom line is, you can’t go back, it’s gone and vanished by then, so it’s best to look for the future and leave behind the past, but make sure you learn from your past mistakes and never repeat the same mistake.

On the other hand, if you plan and set goals, some kind of goals, any kind, small or big, short or long term goals, anything you really want to achieve without taking into acccount what other people see or think, just about what you want to achieve and what you dream for in this case.

Write down 5 most important goals in your life, then increase the list. Plan and take action on how to achieve each one of them. Observe and see how you feel when you achieve or when you don’t achieve them. Change your method or approach if it doesn’t work well. Tick them off and reward yourself each time you achieve them.

Try not to worry whether your goals are realistic or not, just go for whatever you want, you will be surprise when you notice that your mind and action will just do whatever needs to be done in order to achieve your goals, especially if you want them bad enough emotionally. That is why the bigger your goals the more likely that you will work harder to achieve them. You will feel so… good when you achieve them.

Setting goals and planning to achieve them is fun to do. It gives you more energy about life. It’s crazy and amazing how valuable your life becomes when you make these activities of setting goals, planning and taking action as your daily habits.

One last thing though, if you don’t quite achieve the goals you set, never ever get frustrated, just reflect, fix the mistakes, add more volume or substance to the areas that are lacking and more forward toward a better way of doing things to get what you want with a slightly delayed timing. That is OK and just enjoy our journey.

Be content, stay safe, happy and healthy.

Take care, best of luck.


Do you feel financially stuck in a rut?

Do you have a huge mortgage?

Do you fight a lot with your partner because of money?

Do you have a job that you hate?

Do you feel underpaid or ripped off at work?

Do you feel as if you cannot keep up with anything anymore?

Do you feel completely fed-up?

Well…, look around, find ways and free yourself…!

You do not know where to start?

Do you have family or friends you can trust?

Can you get free guidance from them?

If not, do you have access to the computer and the Internet often?

Google and find some free advices and information from the Internet.

Better again, find a free life coaching service that you can take advantage of.

If you feel comfortable to talk to me, contact me for a free trial of a one-on-one coaching session. I can also refer you to another coach that suits you best if necessary.

Just remember that the journey to success is not a quick process. It takes time, effort and commitment.

First of all, skill up, find ways to make money, manage your time and money effectively, including investing any left over as much as you can. Be patient..!

Invest in building a pipeline that will eventually create or generate passive income where you don’t always have to be there to get paid. Leverage and multiple your time and money.

Again.., please remember that it takes time to succeed.

Let me know if you need help. I can refer you toward the right direction, people and options. I can connect you with the best people in the industry that’s working right now.

There are lots of options out there to make money and find freedom. However, you must be conscious of choosing the right vehicle to take you to where you want to be.

If you have other issues or matters that get in your way, you must first remove them. You must first grow as a person, be willing to help others and be persistent.

The right attitude goes a long way and your strength will help you through any kind of challenges along the way, no matter what. The power is in you, despite what goes on around you or at you. It’s your own internal energy that will take you to where you want to go. So, believe in yourself and persist.

Never give up..! Anything is possible and you can do it…!

Smile and good luck…!

Achieving Your Dreams

Someone taught me a long time ago that it is very important to make a list of your goals (dreams) if you want to achieve them. When your dream is compelling, it stays in your mind and it manifests into your subconscious mind, which then attracks all the things and actions to take you to it.

When I was in the early 20s, I was looking through a book about historical buildings in Europe. As I was looking through the pictures and reading about them, I was absolutely impressed by them. I then thought that one day I would love to see those buildings with my own eyes.

I know that it seems a long time since I thought (dreamed) about it. However, because that thought was so… compelling in my mind and I really wanted it to happen, even though it seemed impossible to achieve at that time, it must have stayed in my mind so… strongly, because, thirty years later (recently), after achieving many other goals along the way, I achieved that particular dream to visit those historical buildings in Europe that I saw in that book 30 years ago. It was a brilliant experience and I am now working on even bigger and better goals (dreams).

The point I am trying to make is that if you believe, you will achieve.

I can help you achieve more strength within yourself. So you can focus, believe and take action on your dreams.

Create Your Own Bright Future

  • This is life. We all experience certain incidences and circumstances whether we expect them or not.
  • What makes the difference is how we receive every opportunities coming our way.
  • As we have heardThe American Provert about the three kinds of people. Those who make things happen, those who watch things happen and those who do not know what is happening.
  • Do you know what is happening?
  • Which type of people would you like to be?
  • If you are or wish to become the type that makes things happen, take this opportunity to start a new plan in the new year of 2011.
  • This is for all women and men who want more in life.
  • This is also suitable for migrants who want to build a better life style in the new environment.
  • Particularly those who may have had high education and career prior to migrating and have to or want to start a new career path.
  • I am here to assist you and give you guidance how and where to start.
  • I will do this through group or one-on-one coaching.
  • The first session will be FREE and you may be entitled to receive ongoing FREE 2 weekly sessions there after.
  • Why am I interested in helping you?
  • Because I have done it myself and thoroughly enjoying my journey.
  • Because I know how difficult it can be.
  • Because you deserve to succeed too.
  • If you are interested, please contact me via email or by subscribing on this website.

Kindest Regards,

Coach Tenny CPC

Discover Your Potential

Ask yourself these questions:

  • What do you enjoy doing most?
  • What are you best at doing?
  • When is your happiest moment?
  • What do you really want to be?
  • What’s your favourite food, movies, books, etc.?
  • Who do you admire and who is your idol or role model?
  • What’s stopping you from moving forward to achieve your goals?
  • What skills and knowledge do you have?
  • What formal qualifications have you obtained?
  • What do you need to do or have in order to achieve your goals?
  • Do you have a life coach?

A Life Coach can help you uncover your potential, set your goals, set-up an action plan and take action on your strategies to achieve your goals.

A Life Coach will develop a relationship with you to take you through an incredible journey towards a successful future.

Create your own future and good luck.

Your Life Coach is here to partner and work with you on how you can go through this process successfully.

  • If you are not familiar with life coaching, please read the “What is Life Coaching” page and here is your best opportunity to experience by taking my offer to have 2 FREE Coaching Sessions for the first 3 clients registering in each month.
  • “I Can Do Life” provides affordable and value for money packages to ensure that we assist people in need of support. To find out more about our rates, please email me for the password to access the “rates” page.

Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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Setting Goals

  • Setting goal is one of the most important part of the process to reach your success, because, unless you have specific and clear goals, you will not be able to concentrate on the right path to reach your destination. Without specific goals, you will be lost.
  • Yes, I agree, it’s easy said than done. If you are not used to planning and setting goals, learn from your coach and practice to do this.
  • No matter what happens out there, focus on your own dreams and values while learning from what’s happening around you.
  • There is no coincidence why good things happen to you.
  • Most likely, you had a dream, kept developing it in your mind and attracting yourself towards various actions to get you to your destination and before you know it you are there.
  • Keep focusing. Focus… Focus… Focus…! and avoid being swayed by external influences and other people’s values that get in your way. Your coach can help you do this professionally and gracefully without hurting anyone’s feelings.
  • Dream…, stick to your own values and follow your heart.
  • You deserve to achieve your own dreams and values.
  • These processes are often not easy to do. Find a reliable professional coach who will help you with this.
  • If you are not familiar with life coaching, here is the link to find out more about it. To experience it, here is your best opportunity to take my offer to 2 FREE Coaching Sessions for the first 3 clients registering in each month.

Tenny Charlesworth CPC

Contact Details:

e > tenny@icandolifecoaching.com

w > you are right here now

m > (+61) 422308614

p > (+61) 8 83847993


Copyright © 2009 – “I Can Do Life” Coaching