Coaching – Communication – Identification of Your Dream and Potential

Please bear in mind that coaching is more about brain-storming, questioning from the coach and empowerment for you to finally find the right answers, meeting your personal needs. Technically, the only right answers for you is your own answers that suit you best as a result of your exploration, analysation, brain storming and discussion with your coach. Your coach would ask you questions to empower you in becoming more aware and clear of your goals and your strategies.

There is never the right answers that other people can give you, as you are the only one who knows exactly what you want, where you are at and where you want to go?

To identify your dream, my  suggestion is to sit down and do a mind mapping exercise of your personal goals, something that you really would love to have and do in an ideal world, or if time,  money, culture or religion is no object. This will help you identify your goals or dreams.

To discover your potential, explore and do another mind mapping about the things that you have done best at without much effort in achieving results. That will give you an idea or identification of your potential, what you are really good at. And then think if this is something you love as well. If that’s the case, you would be sure what your potential is.

By identifying your dream and your potential, you can hopefully pin point if most of the things you love doing and you are good at match what you are doing now for a job, hobby or business. If that’s the case, perfect..! If not, maybe it is time to explore and make a change to do something that suits your dream and potential, so that you can be more satisfied with your life.

I hope that helps you.

To conduct an information interview, the main theory is making sure that you ask open questions related to whatever information you need or want to know. Open questions are questions that require the person to give details in answering your questions. An open question is not a leading question or a close question that only require short answers or a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer.

What to say to a CEO, it depends what industry the CEO is of and depends what result you expect from that CEO. My suggestion is to do your research about the industry and to get to know the CEO’s agenda by reading up on his/her strategical future/direction. If you want the CEO to be impressed by you, I would say how much you like his/her plans and that you are supportive of it and want to be part of the project.

I hope that helps. Here is something I found that may help you. This book is about answering job interviews but you can reverse it by using those questions. Enjoy.
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All the best,
Tenny

Discovering Your Potential

Ask yourself these questions:

  • What do you enjoy doing most?
  • What are you best at doing?
  • When is your happiest moment?
  • What do you really want to be?
  • What’s your favourite food, movies, books, etc.?
  • Who do you admire and who is your idol or role model?
  • What’s stopping you from moving forward to achieve your goals?
  • What skills and knowledge do you have?
  • What formal qualifications have you obtained?
  • What do you need to do or have in order to achieve your goals?
  • Do you have a life coach?

A Life Coach can help you uncover your potential, set your goals, set-up an action plan and take action on your strategies to achieve your goals.

A Life Coach will develop a relationship with you to take you through an incredible journey towards a successful future.

Create your own future and good luck.

Your Life Coach is here to partner and work with you on how you can go through this process successfully.

  • If you are not familiar with life coaching, please read the “What is Life Coaching” page and here is your best opportunity to experience by taking my offer to have 2 FREE Coaching Sessions for the first 3 clients registering in each month.
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Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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Which type of person are you?

  • There are people who make things happen, there are people who just watch and judge things happening and they are people who don’t even notice anything happening, they are just plodding doing the same things day in day out and later wondering why they are bored and have not achieved much in their life.
  • We want to belong to category number one who make things happen and cherish life at full potential. After all we only get one shot at this thing called “life”. Let go of the negativity and move on.

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  • Another terms I heard from my Personal Trainer, she said that they are Climbers, Campers and Pullers.
  • I think you can guess what they mean and it is so.. true about those types of people.
  • I think I am a climber, a diligent one, because they are climbers out there who do it on the expense of other people, which is not good. I don’t mind campers as long as they don’t pull you down. The pullers are the ones we have to keep away from. They are not healthy to be around with, as they tend to be very negative and like to drag you down with them. Like the saying tells us that “misery loves company”. So don’t stay in their company.
  • Be a dilligent climber and keep moving forward and up but most of all enjoy the journey.

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Do you know yourself well?

  • First of all, let’s ask ourselves how much awareness we have about our own actions and behavior?
  • Most of us naturally enjoy looking out toward others. We unconsciously judge other people’s behaviors and actions without realizing what we are doing ourselves.
  • The more mature we become as common human beings, the deeper realization we have about ourselves. We become more aware of what we want and how we prefer to feel.
  • There are more and more people making new and different decisions about their relationships, their professions and their life styles later in life.
  • As we get older, I think we gradually get to know more about ourselves and our potential through life experiences, mistakes that we make along the way and other aspects influencing our decisions. Most importantly though, we need to learn from our mistakes and experiences.
  • The difference between those who succeed and those who fail is not a lot. Successful people make conscious awareness of every step and every stage of their lives and they keep making improvement towards better and bigger things.
  • They do self talk and continue making conscious modifications to their own behavior and actions.
  • These people become extremely confident about what they are capable of doing and what they want to achieve. They become unstoppable and successful.
  • When I said “mature”, I don’t mean that they are older in age. Some people become very mature and capable early in their lives knowing exactly which direction they are heading while others might just flounder treating life as a play ground without thinking of the consequences.
  • Of course it is important to enjoy life with harmonious balance, so you can be happy long term but not indulging on everything all the time or at the wrong time where you become stuck or out of control. Another word, do enjoy life with calculated actions.
  • So …, find and hang around with mature and optimistic people, their attitudes will rub on to you and you can grow as a person.

Enjoy life and stay positive.

🙂

Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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