Taking Action

  • Taking action on your plan is the most important part of any process of achieving goals. However, it is the most difficult part of the process.
  • Most of us have a lot of ideas and opinions about everything. We usually know what we want in life. However, we don’t always know how to start or to find the right path to get there.
  • Human beings have huge minds to gather and store ideas and opinions. However, unless you train your mind to put those ideas in order, to put a plan in place and to take action to go through the required journey joyfully and peacefully, you will not be able to achieve your goals successfully.
  • It is easy to want something and to come up with ideas but it is not always easy to achieve them.
  • There is a specific and structured process to put your ideas and thoughts in the right perspectives, to plan and to travel through your journey and to then turn your dreams into reality.
  • Your coach is here to work with you through that journey of yours to achieve your goals providing you are willing to travel through that journey to take you to your destination.
  • Without taking action on your ideas and plans, you will never achieve your goals.
  • The moment you decide to take action on one smallest goal, you will want to achieve more and your life will evolve to become the one you want.
  • For me, taking action to do various and related studies, jobs and life experiences to become an exceptional life coach has come to fruition.
  • Just remember though that everything requires a process. So, be patient, persistent and resilient.
  • Never give up and most of all, take action and keep moving forward.

Good Luck and Best Wishes.

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Your Life Coach is here to partner and work with you on how you can go through this process successfully.

If you are not familiar with life coaching, here is the link to find out more about it. To experience it, here is your best opportunity to take my offer to 2 FREE Coaching Sessions for the first 3 clients registering in each month.

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Setting Goals

  • Setting goal is one of the most important part of the process to reach your success, because, unless you have specific and clear goals, you will not be able to concentrate on the right path to reach your destination. Without specific goals, you will be lost.
  • Yes, I agree, it’s easy said than done. If you are not used to planning and setting goals, learn from your coach and practice to do this.
  • No matter what happens out there, focus on your own dreams and values while learning from what’s happening around you.
  • There is no coincidence why good things happen to you.
  • Most likely, you had a dream, kept developing it in your mind and attracting yourself towards various actions to get you to your destination and before you know it you are there.
  • Keep focusing. Focus… Focus… Focus…! and avoid being swayed by external influences and other people’s values that get in your way. Your coach can help you do this professionally and gracefully without hurting anyone’s feelings.
  • Dream…, stick to your own values and follow your heart.
  • You deserve to achieve your own dreams and values.
  • These processes are often not easy to do. Find a reliable professional coach who will help you with this.
  • If you are not familiar with life coaching, here is the link to find out more about it. To experience it, here is your best opportunity to take my offer to 2 FREE Coaching Sessions for the first 3 clients registering in each month.

Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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Dare to Dream


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Dare to Dream

  • Why not..? Dare to Dream..! It’s life full of beautiful things out there and we as human beings are a big part of this life on earth, why don’t we enjoy every minute of our step and enjoy the beauty of this life of ours.
  • Dream…! dream as much and as big as you want, it doesn’t cost you anything. When you dream and dream, your subconscious mind is trained to really focus and move forward towards your goal.
  • At the same time though, train yourself to be disciplined and patient in following the process to achieve those goals that you set.
  • Don’t get side track by distractions and negative influences that will also fight to drag you back or down.
  • Build a tough glass dome over yourself and resist any negativity thrown at you. Trust me, you will always come across “pullers” who will try to drag you down from moving upward or try to distract you from succeeding.
  • People love to be part of a group and those who can’t be bothered to work hard to succeed, they tend to try to drag others towards their territory rather than being supportive of your plan to move forward, because they want to be part of you but they are not prepared to work with you towards your goal because it’s too hard and it’s not their goal.
  • We are all a little bit selfish sometimes, so the lazy and negative people always try to drag you down to their level while you try to pull them up to your level to be positive and achieve your goals. In the end, would you rather be miserable at the bottom or be successful at the top?
  • The thing is, going down to the bottom is easier than climbing up to the top, that’s why most people choose to go down because it’s easy to do but what they don’t realize is the result of being at the bottom is not as nice as being at the top. What they end up doing then, they bag those people who are at the top. They call them greedy or lucky, just to justify their position of being down at the bottom.
  • Does that sound familiar to you? I think it would. It is actually quite common that they are more negative and pessimistic people out there than successful ones, because it’s easier to not do anything and complain than striving to succeed.
  • So… don’t listen to those people who try to drag you down from succeeding. Keep dreaming and moving forward, enjoy your journey and accept that everything goes through a process and we can all achieve what we deserve if we put our mind to it.
  • Most people have difficulty recognizing, rewarding or congratulating others for their success. They bag them instead.
  • Michael Jackson has passed away now but his legacy will live forever. He was a role model to millions of fans. He was a dreamer and an achiever. He was a brilliant artist and a genius. His dream was to make the life of others better. Unfortunately too many people decided to take advantage of his vulnerability and to search for his faults instead.
  • Good Luck and remember to have vision. DREAM for your ultimate goals and work towards it but most of all, enjoy your journey, be kind to others and be patient during the process. You will arrive at your destination. Your first step to take action is the most important move. You can only eat an elephant one bite at a time. Just embrace life and keep moving forward. Don’t look back, just keep going.

I know, it’s easy said than done. Your Life Coach is there to partner and work with you on how you can go through this process successfully.

  • If you are not familiar with life coaching, here is the link. To experience it, why don’t you take the opportunity of my offer to give you 2 FREE sessions to the first 3 clients registering in each month.

Coach Tenny Charlesworth

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Setting Goals

  • Setting Goals is one of the most important part of the initial process to achieve what you want.
  • If you don’t set the specific goal to achieve, you won’t know your actual destination, the path to take, the skills and knowledge to obtain and the actual thing you really want to achieve.
  • Many people say that they want to be rich but without setting specific goals to achieve, they often lose focus and don’t really achieve much in the end.
  • Although having vision and dream is also a very important part of the process, our vision is usually too big and too much of such intangible thing. So you need to break them up into much smaller and more specific and realistic goals with certain time frames put in place for each goal to achieve.
  • You then need to focus on each goal working from start to finish including the planning stage and the skilling stage through out the whole process until to actually achieve each goal that you set in the beginning and then start with the next goal.
  • Every achievement goes through some kind of process. You need to be patient and diligent in each process, realizing and accepting the potential set-backs in between sometimes, and learn to build character and resilience to be able to get through each hurdles through out your journey.
  • That’s just how everything works in life. So, rather than giving up too soon or thinking that  it’s too hard to do, just set small goal at a time, be prepared to go through the process required and just relax and enjoy the journey. Be patient.
  • It’s a natural thing that we always want more in life and it’s nothing wrong to want more, it’s human nature. However, many people are not prepared to go through the process or the journey to get what they want. They are not prepared to set their goals, to plan or to focus on following the specific path to get there. Some people end up getting frustrated, giving up and resign from dreaming while others end up going through the wrong path by trying to get what they want the wrong way, taking advantage of others, doing things on other people’s expense or conducting unlawful activities. Either way, that’s not good is it? So, make sure that you hang on to your integrity and principles.
  • So.. if you want to join the pack of successful people, successful in all areas, not just becoming rich of material wealth only, then be patient, set your goals and be willing to go through the process to achieve your dream goals.
  • Michael Jackson has passed away now but his legacy will live forever. He was a role model to millions of people when it comes to striving to achieve his dreams. He must have set his his standards and his goals so…high and get results like he did.

Good Luck.

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Which type of person are you?

  • There are people who make things happen, there are people who just watch and judge things happening and they are people who don’t even notice anything happening, they are just plodding doing the same things day in day out and later wondering why they are bored and have not achieved much in their life.
  • We want to belong to category number one who make things happen and cherish life at full potential. After all we only get one shot at this thing called “life”. Let go of the negativity and move on.

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  • Another terms I heard from my Personal Trainer, she said that they are Climbers, Campers and Pullers.
  • I think you can guess what they mean and it is so.. true about those types of people.
  • I think I am a climber, a diligent one, because they are climbers out there who do it on the expense of other people, which is not good. I don’t mind campers as long as they don’t pull you down. The pullers are the ones we have to keep away from. They are not healthy to be around with, as they tend to be very negative and like to drag you down with them. Like the saying tells us that “misery loves company”. So don’t stay in their company.
  • Be a dilligent climber and keep moving forward and up but most of all enjoy the journey.

Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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Do you know yourself well?

  • First of all, let’s ask ourselves how much awareness we have about our own actions and behavior?
  • Most of us naturally enjoy looking out toward others. We unconsciously judge other people’s behaviors and actions without realizing what we are doing ourselves.
  • The more mature we become as common human beings, the deeper realization we have about ourselves. We become more aware of what we want and how we prefer to feel.
  • There are more and more people making new and different decisions about their relationships, their professions and their life styles later in life.
  • As we get older, I think we gradually get to know more about ourselves and our potential through life experiences, mistakes that we make along the way and other aspects influencing our decisions. Most importantly though, we need to learn from our mistakes and experiences.
  • The difference between those who succeed and those who fail is not a lot. Successful people make conscious awareness of every step and every stage of their lives and they keep making improvement towards better and bigger things.
  • They do self talk and continue making conscious modifications to their own behavior and actions.
  • These people become extremely confident about what they are capable of doing and what they want to achieve. They become unstoppable and successful.
  • When I said “mature”, I don’t mean that they are older in age. Some people become very mature and capable early in their lives knowing exactly which direction they are heading while others might just flounder treating life as a play ground without thinking of the consequences.
  • Of course it is important to enjoy life with harmonious balance, so you can be happy long term but not indulging on everything all the time or at the wrong time where you become stuck or out of control. Another word, do enjoy life with calculated actions.
  • So …, find and hang around with mature and optimistic people, their attitudes will rub on to you and you can grow as a person.

Enjoy life and stay positive.

🙂

Tenny Charlesworth CPC

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